Good evening once again dear
readers! Sadly, this is our fifth post and we have to say goodbye. But before
that we are going to talk about relating with others in our cultures. The
reason we pick this topic is that we have a subject named Relationships of the future, which is related to our future and we
are learning how to relate with others and how can we transform relationships
around us.
As we mentioned before, Spanish
people are very close and it is easy for them start talking with a stranger, no
matter the context: in a bus stop, waiting in a queue, in a bar, etc. For
example, two weeks ago I was having lunch in Vapiano with some friends that visited me and next to us there were
a big table with Spanish people. A woman of this group said that she wanted to
drink the same beer as me so I answered her the name of the beer and we start
to talk. They were in Eindhoven because they wanted to travel during the
festivities in Spain. We talked about my studies and the terrible flooding that
Málaga and Huelva suffered. In conclusion, it was very easy for me to start a
conversation with them and continue talking because Spanish people are always
talking with everyone. Specially if we are travelling and we meet other Spanish
persons. However, in Korea, it will be rare to see that strangers or new people
talk to each other. For example, if you visit Korea and try to start a
conversation with a person next to you on a bus or train, you could be a weird
person. Korean people are not that used to initiate a conversation with
strangers. The main reason of is that people do not want to bother someone and
they really mind it. People just do not want to be an obstacle because it can
be connected to rudeness. You can also find this atmosphere at work. People do
not say their complaints directly because they do not want to be rude. They just
say it when they cannot ignore it more. Therefore, when you meet Koreans in
your business, you should try to figure out their mind to communicate well.
They do not express themselves directly. In Spain, it depends on the
personality of the person.
On the other
hand, we found a common characteristic while discussing these differences. We
talked about why we act in different ways to relate to strangers. As a result,
the reason was the same. We both want to give good impression to people. Nevertheless, we act differently,
the basic reason of both cultures in relating with others is that the first
impression is very important. To give good first impression, Spanish people
tend to be very affectionate and kind, while Korean people care that they will
disturb someone or not when they first meet someone.
Finally, we would like to add that despite
the differences we have mentioned in this blog we have become very good friends
and we encourage all to study abroad and travel to learn more about different
cultures!




















